Six Hard Truths About Money That Most People Don’t Want to Hear

Mike Allerson
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The financial landscape is more complex than ever, yet the fundamental truths about money management remain surprisingly simple. After years of observing financial behaviors and patterns, it’s clear that most people’s money problems stem not from external factors, but from their own choices and misconceptions.

The Economy Isn’t Your Biggest Problem – You Are

While it’s true that wages haven’t kept pace with inflation, particularly in housing, the data tells a different story about financial hardship. Surprisingly, there’s almost no correlation between income and financial stability. More than half of Americans earning over $100,000 annually report living paycheck to paycheck – a startling revelation that challenges our assumptions about income and financial security.

The real issue isn’t how much you earn, but how you manage what you have. Living beyond your means manifests in various ways:

  • Maintaining expensive car payments while struggling with basic bills
  • Frequent food delivery and dining out due to convenience
  • Multiple streaming service subscriptions
  • Excessive online shopping
  • Overflowing closets despite financial strain

Someone earning $75,000 but living on $50,000 is financially healthier than someone making $200,000 but spending every penny – or worse, accumulating debt. The key isn’t just earning money; it’s keeping it.

The College Degree Myth

The long-held belief that a college degree is the golden ticket to success needs serious reconsideration. High schools often function as funnels for post-secondary institutions, pushing students toward expensive degrees without considering the return on investment.

Most industries have several possible entry points that don’t involve going five figures into debt at 17 years old.

The most financially successful individuals often follow one or more of these paths:

  • Business ownership
  • Skilled trades
  • Self-taught skills leading to high-paying positions

The Employment Trap

Working for others places a natural ceiling on your earning potential. Employers must pay you less than the value you create – it’s basic business economics. Your options for increasing income as an employee are limited to:

  • Requesting raises
  • Pursuing promotions
  • Changing employers

Self-employment, whether through a side hustle or full business, offers unlimited earning potential. You control your rates, can outsource tasks, and scale operations according to your goals.

The Vehicle Value Trap

Vehicle financing represents one of the most significant wealth-draining decisions people make. An $8,000 car serves the same basic function as an $80,000 one, yet many lock themselves into expensive monthly payments that prevent wealth building.

Consider this perspective: The combined cost of a basic apartment rental and average new car payment often exceeds a mortgage payment for an entire house. This demonstrates how car payments can severely impact your ability to build real wealth through property ownership.

The Slow Path to Wealth

Building wealth is fundamentally boring and slow. Despite what internet gurus promise, there are no legitimate shortcuts to becoming wealthy. The proven path involves:

  • Consistent investment in diversified funds
  • Patient compound growth over time
  • Avoiding get-rich-quick schemes
  • Regular, automated investing regardless of market conditions

The Tax Misunderstanding

Many people misunderstand marginal tax rates, leading to poor financial decisions. The belief that earning more money can result in taking home less due to tax brackets is completely false. In a marginal tax system, you only pay higher rates on the portion of income that falls within each bracket, not your entire earnings.

This misunderstanding leads some to decline overtime or promotions – a costly mistake that prevents wealth building. Understanding how tax brackets actually work is crucial for making informed career and financial decisions.


Frequently Asked Questions

Q: How can someone determine if they’re truly living within their means?

Track all expenses for 30 days and ensure your monthly spending is at least 20% less than your take-home pay. If you can’t save at least 20% of your income, you’re likely living beyond your means.

Q: Is self-employment really necessary for financial freedom?

While not absolutely necessary, self-employment significantly accelerates the path to financial freedom by removing income caps and allowing for multiple revenue streams. Traditional employment can still lead to financial freedom, but it typically takes much longer.

Q: What’s the best investment strategy for beginners?

Start with low-cost index funds that track the S&P 500 or total stock market. Set up automatic monthly investments and focus on consistency rather than timing the market. This simple approach has historically outperformed most active investment strategies.

Q: How much should someone really spend on a car?

The total value of all your vehicles should not exceed 50% of your annual income, and ideally, you should be able to pay cash. If you must finance, keep the payment below 10% of your monthly take-home pay and aim for a loan term no longer than 48 months.

 

Hi, I am Mike. I am SelfEmployed.com's in-house accounting and financial expert. I help review and write much of the finance-related content on Self Employed. I have had a CPA for over 15 years and love helping people succeed financially.