Why Letting Go of Control Leads to True Freedom

Keith Crossley
Why Letting Go of Control Leads to True Freedom
Why Letting Go of Control Leads to True Freedom

In a thought-provoking video by Keith Crossley, he explores one of the most misunderstood aspects of spiritual and personal growth: the distinction between faith and belief. Drawing from years of contemplation and observation, Keith explains that belief often arises from our need for control. At the same time, faith emerges from a willingness to embrace uncertainty and find freedom in letting go.

In the video, Keith examines how beliefs act as protective mechanisms, shielding us from the uncomfortable truth that much of life is beyond our control. He describes them as mental scaffolding, offering the illusion of certainty in an unpredictable world, while also limiting the freedom to experience life’s unpredictability fully.

Keith highlights a profound insight: beliefs are attempts to create certainty about things that inherently resist it. This is why we refer to them as “beliefs” rather than “facts.” Their very nature is an effort to solidify what cannot truly be fixed. Through his reflections, Keith invites viewers to embrace the transformative power of faith and the freedom of surrendering to the unknown.

The Liberating Nature of Faith

Faith operates on an entirely different wavelength. Unlike belief, which tries to impose certainty, faith embraces the unknown with open arms. True faith whispers, “I don’t know, and that’s okay.” It represents a fundamental trust in the process of life itself, even when we can’t see the full picture.

This distinction becomes particularly evident when dealing with personal challenges. Many people believe inGod or a higher power will rescue them from their difficulties. While this might provide temporary comfort, it reflects a deeper resistance to life’s natural flow.

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The Paradox of Pain and Purpose

Our relationship with pain illustrates this dynamic perfectly. When we believe we must be saved from our pain, we miss the possibility that our struggles might serve a greater purpose. The very belief that we need rescue could be the primary obstacle to our growth.

Consider these fundamental differences between belief and faith:

  • Belief seeks to control outcomes
  • Faith accepts uncertainty as natural
  • Belief demands specific results
  • Faith trusts in the unfolding process
  • Belief resists what is
  • Faith embraces what comes

The Path to True Freedom

The real transformation occurs when we start releasing our grip on certainty. As we cultivate genuine faith, our need for rigid beliefs naturally diminishes. This shift doesn’t happen overnight – it’s a gradual learning process to trust life’s inherent wisdom.

When we stop trying to control everything through our beliefs, we create space for authentic faith to flourish. This surrender paradoxically leads to a deeper sense of security than our beliefs ever provided. It’s not about knowing what will happen; it’s about trusting that we can handle whatever happens.

True faith relinquishes the need for control and certainty, making many of our previous beliefs unnecessary.

The journey from belief to faith represents a fundamental shift in how we relate to life itself. Instead of seeking guarantees, we learn to dance with uncertainty. Rather than demanding answers, we develop comfort with questions. This transformation leads to a more authentic and peaceful way of living.


Frequently Asked Questions

Q: What’s the main difference between faith and belief?

Faith represents trust in the unknown, while belief attempts to create certainty about uncertain things. Faith accepts life as it unfolds, whereas belief tries to control outcomes and experiences.

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Q: Can someone have both faith and beliefs?

Yes, people can experience both faith and beliefs simultaneously. However, as faith deepens, the rigid structure of beliefs often naturally loosens, making way for a more flexible and trusting approach to life.

Q: How does letting go of control lead to freedom?

When we release our need to control everything through beliefs, we experience the freedom of accepting life as it is. This acceptance reduces anxiety about the future and allows us to live more fully in the present moment.

Q: Does having faith mean giving up on goals and aspirations?

No, having faith doesn’t mean abandoning goals or becoming passive. Instead, it means pursuing objectives while remaining open to different outcomes and trusting that the path might unfold in unexpected but meaningful ways.

 

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Keith Crossley is the author of Immune to Suffering. He teaches clients and business leaders the best ways to navigate and enrich their lives despite all the hardships the leaders will face. Keith has devoted his life to helping others on their journey towards healing and finding inner peace.